Happiness

We all have a different definition of happiness. We can be happy with the simplest things in life while others happiness is costly. So never let any other person define what can make us happy because it was for us to decide. It is not a goal, but it is a by-product of our decisions. We choose to be happy and nobody else can steal our happiness if we don't let them. Choose wisely, you have all freedom to be happy, so create your own happiness.

Hope

Hope! Often times, we lose hope. We lose hope because of constant disappointments, failures, and heartbreaks. We are sometimes scared to get up and keep hoping because of those things that might be part of all the inevitables in life. We turned negative because we are scared to feel pain again. We are scared to get hurt. However, if we don't hope what is there to look forward to? Are we going to choose to wallow in our "hurts" or to hope that someday our situation will change in our favor?

We are given the choice to keep the pain to ourselves or to let go and hope for the better.

Just like the quote say we should "let our hopes, not our hurts, shape our future."

The choice is yours, choose where do you want to be? What future would you want to have?

Confidence

Often times, we are scared to make a mistake because of fear that we might fail and embarrassed ourselves. We don't have the confidence to try things that are out of our comfort zones. However, the times that we choose to take risk are the times that can either teach us a lesson or let us prosper.
We should always have the confidence to try even if we fail. Trying means progress. When we try, we move forward to a different goal, and to a better us.  Having confidence also answers our what ifs. Whatever the result of being confident, we should embrace it fully, and keep moving forward.

Be Gentle with Words, Choose Kindness

"A gentle word, A kind look, A good-natured smile can work wonders and accomplish miracles"         -WILLIAM HAZLITT

Words they said are sharper than a knife and deadlier than any weapons. We must never speak if we only meant to hurt someone with it. Close your mouth unless you tend to speak gently. We don't know what a person is going through. We don't know their stories, we don't know their truths. We might have the same experiences but we never have the same coping mechanism. We should always approach with gentleness in our words. We should always use kind words, that might motivate a person who is close on giving up. Just like the what Wiliam Hazlitt say "A gentle word, A kind look, A good-natured smile can work wonders and accomplish miracles."